People with dementia often stay in hospital for months rather than weeks, but everyone’s circumstances will differ.
If the person is admitted under a section of the Mental Health Act (1983), these have particular timeframes: for example, they can be held on Section 2 (for assessment) for up to 28 days, and on Section 3 (for treatment) for up to six months initially. However, these are not definitive, so try not to focus on them too much.
Can the person have visitors?
Speak to the ward staff about visiting arrangements. Most have visiting hours, but some are signed up to John’s Campaign which recognises the importance of flexible visiting for people with dementia.
Some hospitals allow visitors on the ward, while others have designated visiting rooms. Typically, children are not allowed to visit mental health wards, but you can ask if they could see the person in a visiting room or the hospital grounds.
Can the person leave the ward?
This depends on factors like their level of distress and the availability of staff/visitors to accompany them. If the person is allowed to leave the ward – for example to take part in activities in a different area of the hospital or walk around the grounds – they will usually need to be escorted, either by staff or by family or friends.
If the person’s mental health crisis subsides, they may be allowed ‘leave’ from the ward to go home for a few hours or overnight. This is a test of how well they manage outside hospital and is an important step towards discharge.
How can I visit the person if I do not have transport?
Speak to the ward manager or your social worker, as a volunteer driver or hospital transport may be able to help. However, there is no expectation that you visit every day.
If you are unable to visit, ask the ward to help you stay in contact with your relative, for example by phone or video calls.
What if the person needs support with eating and drinking?
Ward staff will support people who need help to eat and drink, so please let them know about the person’s likes, dislikes, routines and dietary needs.
What if the person with dementia is upset, afraid, or looking for me?
Hospital staff are used to working with people in distress. You can help by sharing as much information about the person as possible, including methods that have helped reassure them in the past.
I have been told not to visit for a week while the person settles in – is this right?
There is no evidence that delaying visits from family and friends will help the person settle in, but this advice is still given by some wards.
If you discuss this with staff and they maintain that you cannot visit, contact the hospital’s PALS Team for advice.
Will being in hospital affect the person’s benefits?
Being in hospital will not affect the person’s State Pension, but some other benefits may be affected. For more information, please see the Government’s benefits advice or contact Citizens Advice.