
“My message to anyone living with dementia is to talk about it”
Russell reflects on the challenges of coping with his wife's personality changes following her dementia diagnosis.
The early symptoms of dementia are often relatively mild and can easily go unnoticed or be mistaken for other physical or mental health conditions. Common signs of early-stage dementia include memory issues, slowed thinking and difficulties with communication. Being aware of these early signs and symptoms and seeking medical advice can help to get a prompt diagnosis.
This guide, written by our specialist Admiral Nurses, explores the causes, symptoms, treatment and management of the early stages of dementia.
In the early stages of dementia, a person will start to experience problems that affect their everyday life. They may notice these changes themselves, or they may first be recognised by their family, friends or colleagues. While some people may not think it is necessary to speak to their doctor at this stage, it is important to see a GP to rule out other conditions or start the process of getting a diagnosis so the right support can be put in place early on.
It is generally accepted that there are three main stages of dementia: early, middle and late. However, the condition will affect everyone differently. Read more about each stage and what to expect.
In the early stages of most forms of dementia – including Alzheimer’s disease – the person may have mild problems with their concentration and memory. However, in some forms of dementia, such as frontotemporal dementia, the person’s memory may be unaffected at first.
While the person’s short-term memory and recall of recent events may be affected, their memories of childhood and their past life may remain very clear. This may mislead people into thinking the person’s memory is okay – but if family, friends or colleagues spend some time with the person, it may become apparent that they are repeating themselves, asking the same questions again and again or having difficulty recalling things that happened recently.
A person who has early stage dementia may have problems with language and communication, mainly affecting word-finding or following and responding to conversations. This may be more noticeable in some forms of dementia, such as frontotemporal dementia or vascular dementia.
People in the early stages of dementia may have difficulties with planning, problem-solving and decision-making. This can be particularly noticeable in types of dementia that cause changes in the frontal part of the brain, such as frontotemporal dementia and vascular dementia.
In early-stage dementia, people may begin to get lost in familiar places due to difficulties in orientation and a loss of recognition of cues that they usually rely on, such as road signs, road layout and landmarks. They may find it hard to judge distances or hazards so they may trip more frequently, bump into things or have difficulty with driving skills like judging speed and parking.
In some types of dementia, particularly Alzheimer’s disease and vascular dementia, the person may also lose or misplace items and find it difficult to remember where they might have put them.
In the early stages of certain types of dementia – particularly frontotemporal dementia – memory and concentration issues may be less pronounced, but personality and behaviour changes may occur. For example, the person may be more irritable or irrational, and behave in impulsive or inappropriate ways, such as staring or using sexual language.
Family, friends and colleagues may be more aware of these changes than the person with dementia and this can cause some tension – for example, the person may be resentful of other people’s concern or reluctant to visit the doctor.
If the person in the early stage of dementia is aware of the changes they are experiencing, they may feel frightened, worried, anxious and depressed about what is happening to them. Depression and anxiety may also be signs of dementia. Learn more about managing anxiety and depression.
Physical changes tend to be less pronounced than other changes in the early stages of dementia. However:
While some early signs of dementia are common to most forms, there are differences. For example:
Some people have mixed dementia, which is a combination of two or more forms of dementia, and will experience early symptoms of each type.
There are many different conditions that can mimic the early signs of dementia including infections, delirium, vitamin B12 deficiency, depression, anxiety, diabetes and medication side effects. These conditions are often treatable, so it is important to visit a GP for tests to identify and manage these conditions.
If you are concerned that you or someone you know are showing signs of dementia, do not put off seeing a GP. In an initial appointment, the doctor will ask about the problems the person is having, when they started and how they affect their daily life. They should also briefly test the person’s memory and cognitive abilities, do a physical examination and arrange blood and urine tests to check for other possible causes of their symptoms.
If other health conditions with similar symptoms to dementia are ruled out and there are still concerns about the ongoing changes, the GP may refer the person to a specialist memory assessment team (often known as a ‘memory clinic’) for further tests.
An early diagnosis of dementia can help the person and their family to understand what type of dementia they have, why the changes they are experiencing are happening and what they can do to manage them. It also enables them to have conversations about how to live as well as possible with the diagnosis and to plan for the future.
For some people, medication may be available in the early stages to help slow the progression of dementia, so it is important to see the GP if you are noticing symptoms so that if suitable, treatment can start as soon as possible.
While dementia is a progressive condition, and currently, there is no known cure, medication may help to relieve some of the symptoms or slow its progression in some forms of dementia, particularly Alzheimer’s disease. However, bear in mind that medication is not suitable for everyone with dementia.
There are also strategies for managing the early stages of dementia to help the person maintain their quality of life, for example using memory aids, learning new tips for communication, and accessing support and benefits to help them stay independent for as long as possible.
Dementia can cause changes in personality, behaviour and ability to cope with challenging situations. This can be frustrating for the person with dementia and those around them.
During the early stages of dementia, it is important that the person is supported to maintain their independence with everyday tasks such as work, family life, socialising, hobbies and holidays. Focus on their strengths, rather than what they might be struggling to do. Look into opportunities for new activities and interests to keep the person mentally stimulated, avoid isolation and maintain connections.
A person with dementia may also struggle to cope with the emotional impact of their diagnosis. Family and friends can often provide a great deal of help and reassurance, but they may wish to speak to their GP or dementia specialist about other support they can access, for example from a Community Mental Health Team. Support groups can also be helpful, giving them a space to share experiences and form important social connections. Read more about the emotional impact of a diagnosis and support available.
Small changes in your approach can make a big difference to someone in the early stages of dementia. You could try:
If the person seems more confused than usual and is having increasing trouble communicating, it is a good idea to seek advice from their GP.
Dementia can cause people to withdraw from activities and social contact, so it is important to help them maintain those interests and relationships to support their quality of life. This could include supporting them to continue with everyday activities such as work, spending time with family and friends, exercise, household tasks, holidays and day trips.
It can also be helpful for a person with early-stage dementia to try new meaningful activities that bring enjoyment and a sense of purpose. These might include joining community groups such as a choir, art group or gardening club, learning a new skill like a language or craft, volunteering, taking up a sport, or joining a support group for people with dementia. Explore more ideas for meaningful activities.
The progression of dementia will depend on many factors, including:
Everyone has a different experience of dementia so try not to focus on how quickly it will progress, and instead make time for enjoying each other’s company and making new memories.
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If you or someone you know has been diagnosed with dementia and you would like to learn more about the condition and what to do next, book onto our free online sessions, ‘Dementia: what next?’.
To speak to a dementia specialist Admiral Nurse about vascular dementia or any other aspect of dementia, please contact our free Helpline on 0800 888 6678 (Monday-Friday 9am-9pm; Saturday, Sunday and bank holidays 9am-5pm, every day except 25th December.
Alternatively, you can book a free, 45-minute phone or video appointment with an Admiral Nurse.
Missing the early signs of dementia could lead to a delay in beginning treatment to slow its progression (if suitable), accessing support, receiving dementia-related benefits and planning for the future. However, it is never too late to get help so if you are concerned that you or someone you know are showing signs of dementia – whether subtle or pronounced – it is important to see a GP.
During the early stages of dementia, the most important things to look out for are persistent and progressive changes in memory, thinking or behaviour that interfere with daily life. While occasional forgetfulness or mild cognitive changes are a normal part of ageing, dementia-related changes are more pronounced and consistent, and will get worse over time.
Driving is an important source of independence and enjoyment for many people, but the skills it involves are often affected by dementia. Legally, the Driver and Vehicle Licensing Agency (DVLA) in England, or the Driver and Vehicle Agency (DVA) in Northern Ireland, must be informed of diagnosis. But while it is possible that the person may be told to stop driving, many people in the early stages of dementia are able to continue for some time.
Even if the person is informed by the DVLA/DVA that they can continue driving, it is essential to consider whether they are safe to drive – at the time of diagnosis and as their condition progresses. Read more about dementia and driving.
Dementia is more common in people over the age of 65, and the risks of developing the condition increase with age, so the older someone gets, the more likely it is that you will see signs of dementia – although it is not an inevitable part of ageing.
However, dementia can affect people of any age, so do not dismiss possible symptoms in younger people. When it develops before the age of 65, it is known as ‘young onset dementia‘.
It can be helpful to think of dementia progressing in three stages - early, middle and late.
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